Are you kidding me? My child has been fed healthy food from 6 months, was breastfed until 34 months, has never been ill, has never been on antibiotics, didn't have a flat head, learned everything right on time, is skinny, laughs all the time, and is smarter than many of his peers. Clearly I have not done anything detrimental to his health, either in pregnancy or after his birth. In fact, I have only ever done the things proven to be best for him, extended breastfeeding, baby lead weaning, baby wearing, skin to skin contact, gentle discipline. He was not pumped full of tons of vaccines from birth. He plays in the dirt, he has a great immune system. I see plenty of kids who are sick all the time but mine isn't one of them. He is in great health because he is my number one priority. So, don't assume that you know anything about me or my son.
It is not that I think I know everything. It's that I am uncomfortable doing ANYTHING without first talking to my midwife about it. Seeing as my first appointment isn't until May 7th, no I will not do something just because I saw it on the Internet. I will talk to her about all of these things only then and ask her when she feels it is safe to begin any additional supplements.
It is my right to do only what I feel comfortable with. Reading something online doesn't make it fact, so no, I will not be doing anything without getting recommendations from someone who actually gives a damn about me and my unborn child.
I am on this site because it has been very helpful toward me and my mood disorders. But it is not particularly helpful to attack someone personally for their personal choice. If you think that method is going to help you change someone's mind, you are incorrect. Perhaps showing some sensitivity and presenting just information instead of insulting people would help them to actually care about what you have to say. Maybe a friendlier approach would've been better?
Also, midwives are not medical professionals and they don't give out medication. I am doing a home birth and her only role is to support me in bringing my child into the world naturally, in the comfort of my home.
And I'm not on medication. I was on a combination of vitamins and supplements that had me in a healthy state of mind and med-free. Which, obviously is a priority for me which is why I am going to see how many of them I can get back on once I meet with my midwife on May 7th, and to be back on most of them postpartum. So, again, you clearly don't know much about me just by reading my response on here. I do not take medication. I live a healthy lifestyle and my babies are the most important thing in the world to me. Hence why I will not just blindly do something because I read it on the Internet. I need to know 100% that it is okay and your posts on here alone are not enough to confirm that for me.