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\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- message, attachments, sig -' + '->\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- icon and title -' + '->\r\n \r\n \r\n \r\n ![]() ![]() \r\n <!-' + '- / icon and title -' + '->\r\n \r\n\r\n <!-' + '- message -' + '->\r\n \r\n \r\n Delusional or unrealistic wants? I went with him to cancun a few yrs back and he kept complaining about how the guy/gal ratio was not that great and started getting depressed. 2 ladies came up to us and started drinking with us (they were avg looking and fund to drink with) but he became more depressed because they were not 10\'s. He wants a young girl with a perfect body, face and great job. he wants a perfect job etc and does not settle for anything less. Totally unrealistic.\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- / message -' + '->\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n <!-' + '- message, attachments, sig -' + '->\r\n\r\n | \r\n
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\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- message, attachments, sig -' + '->\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- icon and title -' + '->\r\n \r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n ![]() \r\n <!-' + '- / icon and title -' + '->\r\n \r\n\r\n <!-' + '- message -' + '->\r\n \r\n \r\n Oh boy, that\'s a tough one. One of my dear friends is like that. He\'s always attracted to the 10 and is such a perfectionist. And guess what? He\'s 57 years old now, never been married and is still looking for the 10. It\'s very sad because he\'s a great guy and he\'s still WAITING for this ideal woman (that doesn\'t exist in reality). He\'s just chasing after the wind and has lost touch with what\'s truly important in life...being respected, valued, and loved and giving that to someone else.\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- / message -' + '->\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n <!-' + '- message, attachments, sig -' + '->\r\n\r\n | \r\n
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\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- message, attachments, sig -' + '->\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n <!-' + '- icon and title -' + '->\r\n \r\n \r\n \r\n ![]() ![]() \r\n <!-' + '- / icon and title -' + '->\r\n \r\n\r\n <!-' + '- message -' + '->\r\n \r\n \r\n \r\n <!-' + '- / message -' + '->\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n \r\n\r\n <!-' + '- message, attachments, sig -' + '->\r\n\r\n \r\n This guy wants a 10, always talks about these multi million dollar homes, expensive cars etc. His problem/frustration/issue is these are unattainable goals but he expects them. He wants a job like he had in the past (low hrs and very high pay) and will not settle for less.He thinks he deserves these things because he had a 20 yr run with jobs like that. The fact that they do not exist anymore is the fault of Bush as well as FOX News in his mind (and he actually believes that). I mentioned tohim once about a yr and a half ago: "you are still setting better then 90 percent of the population" and he got pissed and said he wants to be at the top. I then mentioned to him I see people working shit jobs for low pay and not making it and he got really pissed and said "I do not care about other people".\r\n Quote: \r\n
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Unrealistic wants and I realize it. Have an old college roomate (who I stopped talking to again this week, probably for the final time) who lost a high paying job in 08. 2.5 yrs ago and has turned down jobs because 60k in his mind is a joke. He however, is getting worse from the clinical depression point of view and keeps blaming Bush and conservatives for his lifestyle going down. He wants a high paid job, where he works very little and has tons of perks. He is in his early 50s. Is this regular depression?
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