No worries, I never thought for one minute you were ignoring anyone. You have your own life to lead, and ultimately you must do what you think is best. I personally and I know everyone else here, would never try to force their ideas / suggestions on you, with a you must do this kind of attitude, so it's okay
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Whatever happens good luck, and don't worry too much yeah. You don't need extra stress bumping up your BP as well.
Take it easy and best wishes fella. I hope you get thing sorted soon.